Book Review for The Help

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I now this is a long time coming (I apologize!) but I didn't actually finish the book until about a month ago. I did so while on vacation and I ended up leaving the book at home for my mom to read. Yet, I'm so glad that I finally did read it! It was amazing!

Basically, the story follows three women in 1960s Mississippi where prejudice and stereotyping are still very much a normal part of life. Yet, this doesn't stop Skeeter Phelan, Aibileen Clark, and Minny Jackson from realizing that this "normal" way of life is wrong. Phelan is a writer and begins writing stories told by the maids in her town. Aibileen is the older maid who has served for many different families and realizes that a change can be made, but many people are resistant to the change. Minny is a tough maid who serves white families to make a living for her large family. "The Help" hits on notes dealing with the most basic of human rights. My favorite quote from the book is told to a young white girl by Aibileen: "You is KIND, you is SMART, you is IMPORTANT". The book is quite refreshing and bold. It made me laugh and cry and become totally wrapped into the world of the book. DEFINITE must read!!!!


As a college-age writer, I identified with Skeeter Phelan greatly. She is bold and speaks her mind. Though fearful of certain situations, she overcomes self-doubt and insecurities. Prayer and God are big themes within the storyline. It spreads God's word quietly, which allowed for a more personal analysis as I read through the book.

I went and saw the movie with my mom and sister during vacation. I'm not too critical of book-based movies, so The Help was a great addition to the book. I really liked each actors' portrayal of the characters and the visual aspect that the movie brings adds another level of emotion. I recommend reading the book AND seeing the movie.

Tea Mood

Since the weather has been cloudy and rainy and cool, I've been in a tea-drinking mood. Earl grey and English have been my favorites. I even learned how to make an Earl Grey latte (London Fog tea). I've also been thinking about pretty dresses since Christmas Ball is only a few months away. I already have my dress (which I am so excited to wear!) but I stumbled across these beautiful dresses at Lace and Tea. They're so amazing! I'd definitely wear these! I hope you are all enjoying autumn as inspire change as the leaves change :)

My Life Right Now :)

Hey All!

I haven't blogged in a while...oops. I assure you that it wasn't intentional. But I've been so busy! My last blog post was a picture that I took while I was home in Cali. (Which is a great pic, if I do say so myself). I finished up my last day in my previous position at work, then flew home for a 10 day vacation. It was awesome! We spent a lot of time relaxing and even went to Vegas :) And let me tell you, relaxing by the pool was amaaaaaazing. I hadn't relaxed like that in a while. Time at home was good! I loved seeing my family after not seeing them for 8 months. I truly appreciate and love them soooooo much! While at home, I did a lot of shopping. I was transferring into the Reservations Department at work and am no longer required to wear a uniform. So, I needed to expand on my business barbie wardrobe :) I ended up buying two pencil skirts, blazer, black cover-all, frilly shirts, and other business-y items to wear to work.

I love mt new position at work! I was nervous to start making reservations on the phone. But, I jumped in pretty quickly. It's awesome! I love seeing this new aspect of the hotel. And my new co-workers are really nice! I get to decorate my own cubicle soon! And I get to wear a cool headset :)

Classes started up the day after I came back from Cali. I'm taking History of Communication, Shakespeare, and Biology. Classes are going well. It is interesting to balance 40 hrs of work a week plus my full-time class load. But God is MIGHTY! He is helping me get through it :)

Stephen and I are doing well. We started doing Bible studies together twice a week. I definitely missed him while I was in Cali and appreciate his company so much more now because he is a man of God.

I think that's it for now...life is great, life is busy, life is awesome! Many blessings! :)